With parents about their children

 Dear Parents:
Good evening! First to welcome you taking the time to attend parent-teacher associations. This is our emphasis on children's education, attention to the specific performance of home-school communication.
Parents are now more or less read the book, went to Studies have tasted the taste of learning. But as parents, we have more in-depth thinking? what should we learn to guide their children? I like to share is with two identities, one is your child's teacher at the same time I am also a junior high school students to parents. I'm three points:
1. Learning is a habit, good habits bring good results.
There are many parents are beginning to place more emphasis on the academic performance of children. But the good results is how come? I think that is a good habit to bring good results. So, we pay attention to their children's achievements, but also to focus on their study habits. It can be said, to develop a good habit, good results will surely come, and lifelong.
the habit of many, for learning, life and even his life are vitally important. such as the early preview of the habit, the habit learning tasks completed on time, timing of review habit, the habit of consciously taking notes, often summed up the habit, the habit of exercise time, regular habits, and so to live.
me highlight four habits, we can control what to see, their children have not done to. The first order learning. Some of the students is to forget that paper books are not forgotten, today sent down tomorrow to pay to find out, go on the afternoon of the morning talk about the results of hair missing. I joked with them, when the first day on this way, the three days of how to do? or bring your dad to please her mother a secretary, one with your management textbooks, assignments, papers. This appears to be a very superficial things, but finishing the tangible things is not good, mind the invisible but you know how confused, can only be a mess. The second habit is to focus listening habits. most of our knowledge from the classroom, attention is more important than intelligence. We are not stupid many students But why not learn well? his lectures efficiency of only 10%. My daughter is a year when I went to open days at the parents heard of a class, school kids do not listen too common situation. Some turn to turn to speak, and some keep playing pencil eraser ah, ah, dropped to the ground to keep the gap between learning to find ... probably comes out of this. Now the situation is different, no one class of basic speech, there is no people sleep, but I can say with certainty that the efficiency of many people is very poor lectures. They learned to camouflage, it looks good, a teacher can not tell. but one test, the problem came, talked about a lot of things over and over still do not know. The third habit is the habit of doing homework integrity. Some people do not do the job either, or chaos to do, either all wrong or all right, you say how he did. job is not his true reaction level. Some parents are very modest, he said he read little, the child's job is not counseling. We can say that my daughter's job in addition to English, I can not do it. But this is not a problem, the problem is to educate their children, one a second, second, do not know to ask. The present situation is an examination of 80 people, usually operating only 60 points; a person can test 60 points, usually operating only 40 minutes! s Four habits of reading habits. English language are required reading, but some of their parents, at home and never heard their children read English out loud. things that make the book into its own thing, only through reading. If you do not read it, now even better, would soon fall.
the so-called habit, acquired by the people to develop an automatic behavior is a conscious, active, sustained, stable behavior. world-renowned educator William. James once said: lay the foundation for creating a successful life, a bad habit, personal growth and progress could be roadblocks.
2. Learning is a long-distance running, endurance and perseverance is needed.
some people to learn as a sprint, wanted to look more than others; effect is not obvious to immediately give up. In fact, learning is a long-distance running, endurance and perseverance is needed.
a language teacher to have such a girl, she was written carefully, can be ineffective, because the written reasons of habit, she strokes the word crowded together, the teacher read her essay, almost could not watch. Thus, the support of the parents, the girls began a a copybook, every day since calligraphy. The students is with their own race, she uses her perseverance, sweat than their own. Therefore, running every day that add up, you become the final winner. Some of our students are not smart brain, but very fresh drilling into the junior high school has made rapid progress, obviously.
a bit girls called party Yang, College Entrance Examination in 2009, she was arts champion, is now studying at the Peking University Guanghua School of Management. she said, as long-distance learning, the secret is persistence, persistence
I said a long-distance learning is also There is another meaning, that is that we should always hope for their children. even shot at the starting line a few slow, but it is because long-distance running, in the future there is room to catch up.
3. Learning is a competition, parents and children to participate in a competition.
learning, is a better life for themselves. Therefore, learning is a competitive. When they'll grow up and mature, they will know students have learned stage can be said that income for life; they will understand that the original study and the original is all for himself. There is a saying that the learned will always be their own, others can not take away. But now, they think learning is for parents, for teachers to learn. So We as parents should teach them, we should help them. We should say to them, study hard, take away the things done, things will be solved in the future.
why students should learn? Some people think that learning is to the university entrance exam. I think that learning is not only for the university entrance exam, more importantly, to acquire more knowledge. acquire knowledge is to improve all aspects of their ability to improve their living standards, and achieve their life values.
learn to change the fate of learning achievements of the future. learning to enrich themselves, can allow himself to consider the matter more fully, can make you have content.
learning competition has spread to the parents of the head. urban areas, from kindergarten to Some parents take their children to a variety of interest groups to learn various skills; to a junior high school, more parents send their children to learn very well organized, which the door which the door of Imputation. children's learning has become a public topic. friends meet, dinner, New Year, a talk about it is the child's performance, which makes some of the parents of children not doing well is no face. We may criticize this kind of phenomenon can also be an excuse too busy. But a children without parental control on the study habits and learning quality, certainly not as a strict and specific guidance to the parents of the children. So we should do all we can to help them. children learn the competition is the parent of the competition. < br> learning and ultimately competitors, to educate their children seriously competitors. Some of the students going to test almost anxious, confused some students are anxious for this, this is an unhealthy attitude is not conducive to their own progress The. competitors is not only a glass wall in front of you, it is a mirror, it can shine on their own, aware of their shortcomings, can be more perfect myself. Therefore, we have to educate their children in daily learning, not only not to hate the rival, but had to hold on to each competitor gratitude. We ask that each student should not only be competitive, but also in collaboration, cooperation and common progress in the competition!
final I would like to emphasize security issues. children bike to school, parents to send their children to school, should pay attention to safety. security incidents happening around us everyday. there is no security to ruin the happiness of the entire family; not the security is not to talk about to learn, everything is gone. so we have to always put safety first.
all parents! education of their children is a science, we must constantly learn. teachers heart and everyone is connected, are looking forward to their students (children) continue to make progress, not only in learning, but also in the moral, physical and other aspects. Let us work together now!